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Wednesday, November 7th 2007

9:54 PM

Effective Strategy for Your Game

There are guys that when they meet a girl try to show that they understand GAME.  Like, they start talking about evolution, alpha males, how girls cheats their boyfriends, how they know that women are more intimate than men etc.

But I'll say its nonsense as "The Talk of Death".

Let me explain why, and also give you a very counter-intuitive idea of what to do instead.

Generally this thing can make very poor conversation topics with women. Especially hot ones.

(BUT - if you fine a girl that loves this kind of stuff, by all means talk about it, I'm saying this thing that it should not be used as an ATTRACTION strategy for most of the female population)

Well, it might work with the social anthropologist grad student, but not to the girl that any man in his right mind would be attracted to.

There are a few major defects with this strategy:

1. It puts a woman on the defensive. It's like a one country revealing it's battle plans to another country that it is at war with.

It shows that you are "thinking too much" about the dynamic, which not only is a huge turn off, but also makes her think you're going to be a mind-trip. Not good.

2. Chances are, her awareness level is about 10% of yours.

(I hope you are keeping up on my newsletters called "Stepped Awareness".

Have you ever tried played a song you LOVED for a friend and they just didn't get it? 

It's because their awareness didn't go through the same process that yours had - and resulted in you really liking the song...

If your talk about "the unique mating patters of the bonobo apes and how it relates to girls in the club" to a girl who spends the most of her time thinking about new fashion, celebrities and her problems with her boss... Wouldn't you think it's just too alien and weird for her.

This is the same reason why you'll sometimes see the biggest AFC ever with a smoking hot girl. He's normal, and she can easily introduce him to her friends without embarrassment!

3. To a girl that DOES understand it; what you're talking make it seems like a big deal, when it should be plainly obvious.

5-10% of women actually DO get this stuff as yours. It's obvious, intuitive and accepted for them.

And these women are capable of open relationships, like having an affairs with another  women, and generally a lot of fun.

But here's the thing - the guys they end up dating ALSO get this stuff intuitively.

And when you get something intuitively, you'll find it hard or even never go out of your way to convince another person of it, or explain it like it's some huge revelation!

So the moment you do it, the woman whom you find most eligible for the lifestyle you're looking for, will instantly disqualify you.

So... What to do instead?

Well - one of the most effective strategy I use is this:

**Understand society's programming, understand the woman's specific programming, and appear to be under the exact same programming.**

And of course, keep your knowledge of REALITY to yourself (and of course, if you figure out anything amazing, I would appreciate it if you share it on my forum as well)

Learn from it and you'll see the success you are looking for.
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