I am NOT the most fashionable guy in the world.

Usually it is my girlfriend who pick the clothes for me -
not for my benefit...

... but so that she doesn't feel embarrassed when we go out
in public together!

If I were the one to pick my clothes, I'd rather pick the
sweats and t-shirt, coupled with my old worn sneakers. I
mean, I think fashion is silly.

I can definitely appreciate the artistic aspect of fashion
design and style. When you look at a really well dressed
woman, her outfit is like a work of art, and I dig that.

I kinda lose respect when a guy is "too stylish."

Don't get me wrong, a man should present himself like he
means to be taken seriously. A nice suit, good quality,
well-fitting clothes are a fundamental part of masculine
expression.

But some men take it too far.

Case in point, the obsession with "peacocking" in the
pickup Community for the past several years.

When I hear this term it makes me cringe.

YOU ARE NOT A PEACOCK.

Let me explain what is "peacocking," in case you're not
familiar.

There was an emergence of routine-based "game" a while ago
that rely heavily on superficial techniques, status games,
and over-analysis of social interactions.

This always gone in the opposite direction and I never saw
the value of it.

Major reason is I saw how pretending to be someone other
than yourself, and it JUST FELT WRONG saying the routines
and joke that the other guys came up with.

On top of that, the PRIMARY FOCUS of all that strategizing
and game-playing was to covertly get approval from women,
while making them feel insecure so they'd think you were
cooler than them.

Think about the layers of bullshit in that approach to
dating. Not only are you faking your personality because you

a) look for approval (as if girls were an authority on what
makes man a man)

b) hide the truth that you're looking for approval

c) play games with women so that they feel insecure and try
to seek your approval

YUCK

To dress up in a really loud, ostentatious way so that
women would "notice" you and want to talk to you is a kind
of "peacock,". And "peacock" is one of the main techniques
in approaching women.

Wearing a nice watch, or a necklace isn't a bad thing
because some have personal meaning.

But don't do it to make women like you.

I'm pretty sure a lot of men has seen this approach on TV
shows, straining to make sense out of this hare-brained
"technique."

It's sad to say that some students of other pickup schools
that I've encountered,  were not only nervous, misdirected,
clumsy, they looked RETARDED.

So I want to make a direct proof when it comes to fashion
and approaching women.

There are only a handful of things you need to pay
attention to when it comes to your appearance.

After you get this stuff handled, you should put it out of
your mind, and not wait for women to notice you before you
TAKE ACTION.

Before we move on, I have a secret that has to reveal.

(Continued in Part 2)

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