If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a
"10", then you should read this letter.
But first, let's go waaay back...
When I was in high school, there was this girl in my class
who was perfect.
That girl was so beautiful, cool and smart that it was hard
to look at her (and yet I can't take my eyes off away from
her)...
She was friendly to everyone and was one of the popular
kids in school.
We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were
flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).
I wanted to ask her to senior prom so badly...but I
chickened out at the last minute.
It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had
a crushed on me all the senior year.
I have talked to lot of men and this seems a common
experience to them. they missed an opportunity to meet this
ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, or the girl
had broke their heart...
Ah, the elusive "10," the perfect girl that every guy wants
but never seems to attain.
I have a lot to say about so-called "10's." In one sense
they are another "breed" of woman, but at the same time,
it's that kind of thinking that makes them so.
Understanding the reality of the extremely beautiful women
and understanding your own fascination for a perfect women
will help you resolve this conundrum, and might even help
you in finding your "perfect girl."
First of all, "10" is just a myth. No human being can be
considered as perfect. You CANNOT say that a woman who looks
prettier than the women is more "valuable".
A woman that turns you on and have a great chemistry with
you is the only true "10" and is the one that's perfect for
you.
Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10's, given
you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create
options for yourself.
It will be a failure on your part if you treat women
differently just basing solely on looks or on whose much
prettier.
Why?
Because almost all men do that.
The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a
shallow guy.
But of course there are certain women that seem on another
"level" of beauty than the other. And they are treated much
differently than other women.
You need to understand on how you will deal with these
kinds of women.
As what I've said, you shouldn't treat women
"differently."
Let me clear this up.
You shouldn't treat them BETTER than other women. But there
are a couple things you need to know.
First, she don't like a guy that chases her for her looks
alone.
More than anything else, a woman values a guy that
appreciates her personality.
Now for the benefits of yours, I'll give you a heads up.
The so-called "10's" has two different types.
The high self-esteem, and the low self-esteem.
The common type is the low self-esteem 10's. The women that
belongs to this group are used to being wanted for their
looks and they know that they didn't EARN an attention, so
they have a guilt complex.
In fact, most of their lives are probably coasted, and are
in complete dumbasses.
May sound harsh but I call it like it is.
These women take away their validation will make them flip
out and do anything to get it back. They also respond to
jerk-behavior.
Anything.
(Aside from it, these women usually suck in bed and when
you get involved with them, they are in total head cases.)
Now high self-esteem 10's are women that have had a taste
of the elite -they realized early on that high levels of
society were attainable to them, and they made an effort to
be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their
lives.
These women know that they are just a little closer to a
great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to
put in the extra effort.
Usually HSE 10's are intellegent, have good attitudes, have
a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being
clubbing.
In fact, most of beautiful women I've dated didn't go to
the club. They just spend their nights being with their
families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or
studying if they were in college).
And here's another interesting thing. These women are
single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends.
Why?
Because they have high standards for themselves, and since
most guys are either too intimidated to ask them out, or act
too needy and pathetic around them, it's rare that they meet
another man who is on their level.
But here's the good news. These women are the easiest to
attract when you understand The Attraction Code.
The
Attraction Code is about being a "male 10," the best
man you can be.
You'll notice an interesting thing when you start to embody
the
Attraction Code.
Occasionally women that are less attractive will be rude to
you and you'll get an odd responses from them- that is
because they know they're not on your level - I call this as
Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some girls will try to protect
themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU
first.
But the most attractive, cool women will respond much
differently...you'll be amazed to see the most beautiful
women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether
on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you
are on their "level."
The girl will thinks "finally, a guy who can hang with me;
he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's
the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today,
instead of whistling from his car."
The
Attraction Code is intended for these kinds of women.
And you'll also enjoy a lot of "adventures" with all kinds
of women, but this is about having the option of dating the
hottest, highest quality women.
There are lot of 10's out there waiting for you.
Don't waste you're time waiting for nothing.
Vin